Another well written article. It addresses things I have been dealing with since the late '90's. Part of it is time and opportunity, and part of it is the logistics of life. Being a single parent for over a decade and then becoming a primary caregiver for a parent for another two decades, makes it difficult to form relationships that will lead to sex. Yes, be active in work, kid's school, church, and community activities. But when you do that and care for your family members, there is very little time for dating or even sex (outside of masturbation). It is probably why I write erotica, to help focus and channel my thoughts. But enough about me, as I said, another well written and thoughtful article. Thanks.